by Jessica Blackwell

Part of Sonja's charm has always been that she lives in her own world, and that she's a little bit too much. She seems to be in denial about her financial issues because she's not spending money in the manner that one should if they were trying to save money. This week she pampered Aviva (supposed to be Ramona too, but she stood her up) with a lavish spread when they were only sunbathing! Then she hosted a luxurious spa date for all the ladies like she didn't have a care in the world. A little irresponsible if you ask me. 

Ramona tried to look out for Sonja's best interest by trying to get her to realize that she needs to prepare just in case things with the bank don't end up in her favor and she has to find somewhere else to live. Sonja just mumbled something about The Secret and Angels and shrugged her off. 

While Sonja may not care if she has a place to sleep at the end of the month, she certainly cares about her relationship with her hot young thing, Ben. When he stood her up for a dinner date, she knew something weird was going on. Who would stand up Sonja with the sexy J? 

It turns out that Ramona starting asking around about Ben, through someone that knows his mother! No wonder he stood Sonja up! I'm not sure if she acted out of concern for her friend, or what but Kristin seems to think Ramona is jealous and had no qualms about telling Ramona so. Speaking her mind earned her a face full of wine, courtesy of the stinger. I mean really? What is Ramona, 5 years old? Kristin has proven thus far that she is not going to back down to anyone, even crazy Ramona, so she splashed water right back at her. 

Next week Kristin tries to help Sonja and Kristin gets injured after Ramona throws another glass of wine in her face?

The Real Housewives of New York airs Tuesdays at 9pm on Bravo. 

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