If you are on Match most of the people who do not respond to you are those who are no longer members. They keep you on there to show they have a big membership I have been off 3 years and still get "winks".
I'm not on here as much as I usually am... Would love to keep up with you and will continue to come by your page when I am able to... I update through Twitter, @RhaniLoren... I'm also on FB - Rhani Loren. The weekend's almost here!!! Yeah!!! Voted!