Natural Vs. Processed Hair

As a woman, do you prefer natural or processed hair?  Do you feel it is more important to wear your hair unaltered instead of over processing it with chemicals or masking its appearance?  Do you feel that your natural hair is too stiff and frail, and with the help of relaxers, wigs and weaves you can simulate the hair you wish you had?  Do you that women with healthier natural hair get preferential treatment?  Where do you stand on the great debate of what is considered "good hair?"  We are discussing this topic on an upcoming episode of a hit new daytime TV show and want to hear your opinion.